The world's full of victims and the world's full of terrible perpetrators and I want them identified and caught.

The sadness from reading letters that you know you can't help because it's a person who's in extremis and their problems are not soluble by an advice column.

You can't get a guarantee from everyone who appears in personal photographs that they will forever remain warm presences in one's life or sweet memories.

Once an affair is over, the cheaters need to agree not to see each other anymore in order to reestablish trust with their spouses.

Insecurity is a toxin and confidence is a tonic, so make the choice not to dwell on the worst possible case.

I'm not suffering from some division of personality.

Most women at some point or many points in their lives will have to deal with an unwanted advance and having the confidence to be "rude" and say no is an important skill to develop.