No greater thing is created suddenly, any more than a bunch of grapes or a fig. If you tell me that you desire a fig, I answer you that there must be time. Let it first blossom, then bear fruit, then ripen.
EpictetusUnremarkable lives are marked by the fear of not looking capable when trying something new.
EpictetusIf you think you control things that are in the control of others, you will lament. You will be disturbed and you will blame both gods and men.
Epictetus