How can you tell if you are draining someone? How far have you gotten into their life? Are they dependent upon you? Are you thinking of them negatively? Does your energy drop when you stop seeing them?
Frederick LenzPower is something that is not really visible. Some people have the power to rise above circumstance. Sociological factors and DNA are not all that determine success. It is power.
Frederick LenzThe problem with love is attachment; love makes you dependent. Unattached love - you love for the hell of it.
Frederick Lenz