It is not necessary to wrap people up. The reason you're doing it is because you don't have enough power. If you had enough power, you could unlock your own personal power - you wouldn't need to control others.
Frederick LenzSome people go into tantra with the idea, sort of an intellectual approach, that now they can just do everything and stay high. That doesn't work at all.
Frederick LenzWhen there is time, there has to be suffering. Because in time there's desire and attachment and transition. This is the world of experience.
Frederick Lenz