As Buddha points out, you should not rely on the opinions of others for validation of your internal progression.

You're thinking that you shouldn't have sex because you're celibate. So you just keep thinking about sex instead of enlightenment.

We feel crowded by other people; we feel crowded by social rules; we feel crowded by ourselves, mainly.

Gain control of the mind and make it still, initially just during periods of meditation, but then throughout the day and throughout the night.

As an enlightened teacher of Buddhism, I'd like to welcome you to the pathway to enlightenment. I'd like to encourage you to be more positive, to engage in the practice meditation, to learn how to do this wonderful thing - make your mind still in a crazy world.

If you are doing that which is within you, what that part of you that is beyond body would like you to do, then you would not experience stress because you would be very fulfilled.

Don't just sit there. Go do something and don't expect that it's going to be fun unless you make it fun. You have got to work on things. That is when you are happy.