Don't try to hold people to you, don't try to push them away. Let life do everything for you. This is the proper attitude on the path of love.
Frederick LenzHappiness is self-generated as the mind becomes still. As we become involved with the desires of the world, we lose that centering, that stillness.
Frederick LenzClose your eyes and simply "feel" the spot your finger is touching. Then, after a couple of minutes, let your hands down. Continue to hold your attention on the spot just as you did when your finger was there.
Frederick LenzIf you act impetuously, it will be uncertain, and you'll know it. It just won't feel right. It is better to wait.
Frederick Lenz