Sex does drain a certain amount of your occult energy. But that really has nothing to do with enlightenment.
Frederick LenzOnly one who has achieved immortality of awareness can laugh with life and laugh with death.
Frederick LenzSelf-hate doesn't create enlightenment. It just causes you to not enjoy the current moment.
Frederick LenzAs a dialectical teacher, I have had many lives where I have taught Zen and Tibetan Buddhism and mysticism. I teach in many different modalites. But the theme that unites them - is love.
Frederick Lenz