Anxiety is the gap between now and later.
A thousand plastic flowers don't make a desert bloom. A thousand empty faces don't fill an empty room".
Learning is discovering that somethinkg is possible.
Those that fight don't listen, those that listen don't fight.
Teaching means to show a person that something is possible.
Have a dialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they always start out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference.