I didn't get into this to pick up a new hobby. I don't want to just be a golfer. I want to be the best.

Volleyball anchored me at a time in my life when I needed it. It gave me a reason for being this big, big girl.

To truly be feminine means being soft, receptive, and - look out, here it comes - submissive.

I think any time people behave in a way that's truly them, then they'll never fail. You get in trouble when you try to copy others.

Stay calm and aggressive.

That isn't to say that Hawaii's better. On the mainland, everyone seems to be trying to get somewhere. Kids are taught to shoot for the moon, to believe in their ability to do anything, to follow their passions. In Hawaii, you're stuck in the middle of the Pacific, and it can be difficult to see how you're going to follow your passion from there.

Even if I'm gone all day, breakfast is the one meal I always cook for my kids. I make French toast, oatmeal, or an egg burrito.