My instinct is to be very controlling.
Music gives voices to people struggling to come out of themselves.
I love my children unconditionally.
In the '80s the band was 24/7. You were only as good as what you were producing at any given moment. Now my family is more important. I also think having the shock of your mum and dad dying humbles you slightly.
I think sometimes my controlling instincts came out of a fear of other people.
Love is family, support, priority, and understanding.