The purpose of romantic relationships is to encourage you to grow spiritually. Romantic relationships can do this because they are interactions in which you come to see those parts of yourself that are constructive, healthy and creative. You see them because you project them onto someone else.

Emotions are messengers that carry information. Spiritual growth depends upon receiving that information & using it.

Love is not a passive state. It is an active force. It is the force of the soul.

We cannot control what emotions or circumstances we will experience next, but we can choose how we will respond to them.

Most of us think that decisions such as where shall I live, with whom shall I partner, what shall I pick as a career for my life are the most important decisions that we make. But from the point of view of the universe these decisions are not that important. Within you, you have already made decisions about who you are, what the universe is and how you will relate to other people and how you will relate to the universe and these decisions are creating consequences in your life moment by moment.

If your addiction lingers, ask yourself if you really want to release it, because in your heart you do not.

Judging is a preemptive attack against that which you most desire - intimacy and acceptance - that is launched before you can be rejected or refused.