When you move your focus from competition to contribution life becomes a celebration. Never try to defeat people, just win their hearts.
Gautama BuddhaBuddhas and Bodhisattvas will for seven days appear to you in their benign and peaceful aspect. Their light will shine upon you, ... Wonderful and delightful though they are, The Buddhas may nevertheless frighten you. Do not give in to your fright! Do not run away! Serenely contemplate the spectacle before you! Overcome your fear, and feel no desire! Realize that these are the rays of the grace of the Buddhas, who come to receive you into their Buddha-realms. Pray to them with intense faith and humility.
Gautama BuddhaIt came to me that I should teach this truth for it is real happiness and joy. The cessation of suffering is possible.
Gautama Buddha