Just because we form an opinion about ourselves, or anyone else, doesn't mean it is true.
Geneen RothWeight (too much or too little) is a by-product. Weight is what happens when you use food to flatten your life. Even with aching joints, it's not about food. Even with arthritis, diabetes, high blood pressure. It's about your desire to flatten your life. It's about the fact that you've given up without saying so. It's about your belief that it's not possible to live any other way - and you're using food to act that out without ever having to admit it.
Geneen RothWhat you pay attention to grows. Pay attention to your loveliness, your magnificent self. Begin now.
Geneen RothYou are lovable, you are loving; your choices about food will reflect that, if you give yourself a chance.
Geneen RothIt matters whether you see yourself as someone who is capable of effecting change or whether you see yourself as someone whose voice does not count. It matters whether you treat yourself with reverence or with carelessness. Every bit of work you do on yourself matters. Every time you choose love, it matters.
Geneen Roth