To give is to receive.
Choose to experience peace rather than conflict.
You can choose to be peaceful right here and now ... it has nothing to do with what other people do or think.
I can have peace of mind only when I forgive rather than judge.
We cannot love when we feel fear. When we release the fearful past and forgive everyone, we will experience total love and oneness with all.
There would be very little to dislike in other people if we refused to bring to them all of our own judgements and petty grievances.