Look at a person's light, not their lampshade.
Forgiveness means letting go of the past.
Inner peace can be reached only when we practice forgiveness.
The law of Love is that you are Love, and that as you give Love to others you teach yourself what you are.
As long as we hold unforgivable thoughts in our mind, we will not be able to experience total inner peace.
Other people do not have to change for us to experience peace of mind.