The independents are the ones who tend to commit suicide. I'm not against this way of being in the world. Individuals have brought us many treasures. You can't just say that's a bad way of being in the world - it's not. But it's not everyone's way of being in the world.
Gish Jen... there is ... a big aspect of play in writing novels, and making the story more and more elaborate is just more and more fun.
Gish JenThese are ideas that work for many, and that may well reflect your true understanding of life.
Gish JenIt's human to hear stories and to know how people live and to imagine how that is for them. It's very interdependent!
Gish JenWhen I think about why I would be a writer, why I should continue to be a writer, it seems to me one of the few things you can dowhere you're never bored.
Gish JenIt's a matter of whether you see the self as fundamentally in relationship to other selves or not - whether you see the boundary between self and the world as relatively permeable, which makes you "interdependent" (collectivist) in outlook, or relatively impermeable, which makes you "independent" (individualistic).
Gish Jen