Self-confidence is a terrible, terrible thing; it's also the most attractive thing.

Gay people, we die in all the movies, like we almost always die in the movie, because that's what you can do to us that's dramatic. We can't make a baby.

I really like that homosexuality is a little bit of an existential puzzle.

When I did find guys with whom I was very sexually compatible, trying to figure out how romance worked... when you're a gay guy you don't necessarily have that same push to make a conventional relationship work.

A nice thing about being 40 is that you're not a kid about your understanding of sex or sexuality anymore.

At the same time, we can't blame comedians for taking time to learn. Any critic of comedy who believes that he has always, universally, been on the right side of justice is engaging in a hypocrisy that is itself a joke.

I'm just figuring out being able to understand that it's cool for me to date, and have guys be interested in me, and be interested in guys.