All I want out of music is to think to myself, this could be in a makeover montage.

Self-confidence is a terrible, terrible thing; it's also the most attractive thing.

I think that women have a construction of their sexuality put on them from a very young age that says exclusivity is necessary to remain valuable, that if a dude screws somebody else it means that he doesn't love you, that he doesn't care about you. You don't have primacy in his life.

While I was doing shitty little bar shows in the Central Valley in 2004, I was being out and helping people realize that gay people aren't monsters, that they are just people. So I look at this world with a great deal of pride, and I'm excited for it.

I'm excited for the new crop of gay comics who have never been closeted, who never thought that they needed to put on a dress to tell a joke, and it's exciting.

Deeply in my heart, do I want to believe that there is that special guy that is for me. Yes, absolutely.

I think it's our job to be happy and find happiness for ourselves.