It is easier to be gay at this very moment than it was five minutes ago. It is just constantly getting better, and it's wonderful.

A nice thing about being 40 is that you're not a kid about your understanding of sex or sexuality anymore.

I think that women have a construction of their sexuality put on them from a very young age that says exclusivity is necessary to remain valuable, that if a dude screws somebody else it means that he doesn't love you, that he doesn't care about you. You don't have primacy in his life.

I really like that homosexuality is a little bit of an existential puzzle.

Self-confidence is a terrible, terrible thing; it's also the most attractive thing.

I'm excited for the new crop of gay comics who have never been closeted, who never thought that they needed to put on a dress to tell a joke, and it's exciting.

I want so much to believe in true love.