The weird thing is when you're a gay guy my age, I spent so much of my life just thinking I was probably never going to date anyone, so now just thinking, "all right, settle down and have a child" seems ridiculous to me.

Deeply in my heart, do I want to believe that there is that special guy that is for me. Yes, absolutely.

I'm just figuring out being able to understand that it's cool for me to date, and have guys be interested in me, and be interested in guys.

The wonderful thing about a TV show is if you get picked up for another season, there's no happily ever after.

A nice thing about being 40 is that you're not a kid about your understanding of sex or sexuality anymore.

Not a lot of gay guys end up coming to alt-comedy-ish shows. They like all these '80s shimmer shows, or they like going to drag shows. It is always weird and interesting when I meet somebody at a gay bar who is familiar with my stuff.

I am not a huge fan of being around people all the time. I really like being able to leave people.