The weird thing is when you're a gay guy my age, I spent so much of my life just thinking I was probably never going to date anyone, so now just thinking, "all right, settle down and have a child" seems ridiculous to me.

I want so much to believe in true love.

I'm just figuring out being able to understand that it's cool for me to date, and have guys be interested in me, and be interested in guys.

Gay people, we die in all the movies, like we almost always die in the movie, because that's what you can do to us that's dramatic. We can't make a baby.

A nice thing about being 40 is that you're not a kid about your understanding of sex or sexuality anymore.

It's very important to older male homosexuality in Los Angeles to have a pool, so that cute boys will come to your house and swim around in the pool.

It is easier to be gay at this very moment than it was five minutes ago. It is just constantly getting better, and it's wonderful.