You've got to know what your 'thing' is, and you've got to call it a 'thing,' whether it's meanness, nastiness, un-forgiveness, arrogance, ego, resistance, rebelliousness or defiance. Everybody's got a 'thing,' and once you call your 'thing' a 'thing,' we can give it a place to be or dismiss it.
Iyanla VanzantThis is probably one of the most difficult challenges any parent could face - learning to love the other parent enough to make the children first.
Iyanla VanzantEverybody does not have to like you. That is not their job. Liking you is not anyone's purpose in life except yours.
Iyanla Vanzant