The event is not what you should be working on. You should be working on your response or reaction to an event. You either react to it - that means you become victimized, and you say this thing is happening to you - or you respond to it and say the solution must come through you - that's where you stay focused, not on the rightness, wrongness, fairness of the event, but on the appropriateness of your response.
Iyanla VanzantWe can think, speak, and bring the best possible outcome into existence by focusing on where we are going, not on where we think we are.
Iyanla VanzantTell the truth about who you are, what you feel, what you want, what you're up to. Tell the truth about that first to yourself and then to anybody else that'll listen.
Iyanla VanzantOur beliefs are what create our experiences. As we change our beliefs, we alter our perception, our version of reality.
Iyanla VanzantWhen two broken people bring their broken pieces together, chances are they will never become a whole anything.
Iyanla Vanzant