The event is not what you should be working on. You should be working on your response or reaction to an event. You either react to it - that means you become victimized, and you say this thing is happening to you - or you respond to it and say the solution must come through you - that's where you stay focused, not on the rightness, wrongness, fairness of the event, but on the appropriateness of your response.
Iyanla VanzantPeople may not like what you do, people may not like how you do it, but these people are not living your life. You are!
Iyanla VanzantFeminine power is silent, dark, mysterious, healing, nurturing. A woman can walk into a room and control it. She doesn't even have to open her mouth if she knows where her power is.
Iyanla VanzantAs we learn to see each other through our spiritual eyes, the physical differences will cease to matter.
Iyanla Vanzant