In all relationships, regardless of their nature, there comes that moment when you understand that there are some things you will never understand. When you are standing in that moment, just be right with it.
Iyanla VanzantForgiveness is not about the other person or what they did. Forgiveness is for YOU and about YOU.
Iyanla VanzantSpiritual consciousness does not make your problems go away; it does, however, help you view them from a different vantage point.
Iyanla VanzantYou can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past, you will continue to bleed. You can bandage the bleeding with food, with alcohol, with drugs, with work, with cigarettes, with sex, but eventually, it will all ooze through and stain your life. You must find the strength to open the wounds, stick your hands inside, pull out the core of the pain that is holding you in your past, the memories, and make peace with them.
Iyanla Vanzant