Be willing to share all of who you are. So many of us want a partner, but we're not willing to show all of us.
Iyanla VanzantIf you don't have a vision you're going to be stuck in what you know. And the only thing you know is what you've already seen.
Iyanla VanzantEverybody's got a 'thing.' Some 'things' are nice and quiet. Some 'things' have fangs and claws. Some 'things' stink and have slobber everywhere.
Iyanla VanzantYou must earn what you have. Life does not give you anything. You must give in order to get. You must stand up to the very thing that challenges you, look it in the face, get clear about your intention, order your thoughts and your life, and proceed without fear or hesitation. Life is not unfair. Along the way, you will always find bits of information and support to guide you to purpose.
Iyanla VanzantFamily is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it's the place where we find the deepest heartache.
Iyanla VanzantItโs self-full to be first, to be as good as possible to you. To take care of you, keep you whole and healthy. That doesnโt mean you disregard everything and everyone. But you want to come with your cup full. You know: โMy cup runneth over.โ What comes out of the cup is for yโall. Whatโs in the cup is mine. But Iโve got to keep my cup full.
Iyanla Vanzant