You are never angry for the reason you think you are. There's an older hurt under that.
Iyanla VanzantThe event is not what you should be working on. You should be working on your response or reaction to an event. You either react to it - that means you become victimized, and you say this thing is happening to you - or you respond to it and say the solution must come through you - that's where you stay focused, not on the rightness, wrongness, fairness of the event, but on the appropriateness of your response.
Iyanla VanzantWhat keeps us from achieving our heart's desires is not anything outside of us, it's the conflict inside.
Iyanla Vanzant