Although my dad Harry is the manager of West Ham, we get on very well.
Frank Lampard has a vision for seeing things.
From a personal point of view I want some medals because that is what you aim for when you start out playing.
But what goes on in my life outside of the game should be my business.
It's not enough just being a good passer of the ball.
I'm enjoying myself this year and for once I'm not chasing my fitness.