James Allen says 'We curse the effect and nourish the cause.' The guy puts sand in his shoes and he can hardly walk and you ask why would you do that? Why would we wish for it to change, hope for it to change, but all the while resisting change?
Don't join an easy crowd; you won't grow.
Reasons come first. Answers come second
Take advice, but not orders. Only give yourself orders.
Don't wish for less problems; wish for more skills.
The future does not get better by hope, it gets better by plan. And to plan for the future we need goals.