True love heals and affects spiritual growth. If we do not grow because of someone else’s love, it’s generally because it is a counterfeit form of love.

We cannot heal what we cannot feel.

There are plenty of quacks in the field. Fewer than you'd expect, though still plenty (in alternative medicine).

You can't heal what you can't feel!

Ego is to the true self what a flashlight is to a spotlight.

Chronically dysfunctioning families are also delusional. Delusion is sincere denial.

Condemning others as bad or sinful is a way to feel righteous. Such a feeling is a powerful mood alteration and can become highly addictive.