Men have two basic needs. Neither of them, no matter what they say, is sex. They need love and they need work. And work takes priority over love. If a woman could know only one fact about men and work, it should be that work is the most seductive mistress most men ever have.

Some men are self-made, but most are the revised work of a wife and children.

For men to be virgins, we think it's negative. We think that there's something wrong with them.

... no matter how great the differences are between men and women, the differences among members of the same sex are usually equally great if not greater.

I don't give advice. I can't tell anybody what to do. Instead I say this is what we know about this problem at this time. And here are the consequences of these actions.

Studies indicate that the one quality all successful people have is persistence.

Real intimacy is only possible to the degree that we can be honest about what we are doing and feeling.