Beyond surfaces, you must be intuitively at ease.

The most influential person in the room isn't the one who is being a bully, talking loudly, and imposing him- or herself on others. Surrendered people understand that true power comes from being respectful and listening. Surrendered people know themselves and are empathetic toward others. They don't measure themselves by how much they are liked, nor do they compete for attention. When they sit quietly in a room, others always seem to come to them.

I don't care how intelligent or attractive someone is, if he zaps your energy, he isn't for you. True chemistry is more than intellectual compatibility. Beyond surfaces, you must be intuitively at ease.

Your soul mate can turn into your cell mate if the mutual desire for growth isn't there.

Research shows that happy people look for opportunity while others see only crises. Surrendering fear is healthy!

When you have no idea how to surrender and you're tied up in knots, JUST BREATHE!

Whenever your well-being feels at risk around certain people, make a tactful and swift exit.