If you want to surrender to creativity, surrender to creation.
Don't try to control what's outside. Be at peace with what's inside.
Beyond surfaces, you must be intuitively at ease.
It's not the burden of your mate or anyone else to heal your emotional issues.
The most influential person in the room isn't the one who is being a bully, talking loudly, and imposing him- or herself on others. Surrendered people understand that true power comes from being respectful and listening.
Look at your life as your main career and your divine classroom.