Don't try to control what's outside. Be at peace with what's inside.
Beyond surfaces, you must be intuitively at ease.
The most influential person in the room isn't the one who is being a bully, talking loudly, and imposing him- or herself on others. Surrendered people understand that true power comes from being respectful and listening.
Friends can be the best co-conspirators in charting the unknown.
Spirituality is not for sale. It must be developed.
It's good to be incompatible with your partner sometimes. It causes your souls to stretch & grow - the point of a soul mate!