You ask everybody you know: How long does it usually take to get over it? There are many formulas. One year for every year you dated. Two years for every year you dated. It's just a matter of will power: The day you decide it's over, it's over. You never get over it.
Junot DiazMotherfuckers will read a book thatโs one third Elvish, but put two sentences in Spanish and they [white people] think weโre taking over.
Junot Diaz