What a snarky jerk. (Obviously, I later slept with him.)

I have to take my shoes off, you guys.

Throughout the day I often ask myself, Could I fall asleep right now? and the answer is always a resounding yes.

I have sort of a Zen body philosophy, I'm sort of like: we're one weight one day, we're one weight another day, and some day our body just doesn't even exist at all! It's just a vessel I've been given to move through this life. I think about my body as a tool to do the stuff I need to do, but not the be all and end all of my existence. Which sounds like I spent a week at a meditation retreat, but it's genuinely how I feel.

But I also think when we embark on intimate relationships, we make a basic human promise to be decent, to hold a flattering mirror up to each other, to be respectful as we explore each other.

I would have specific books [when I was 12 or 13] that had pages that I knew had sex on them that I would go and read.

For straight, hetero people it's very easy to unintentionally say something that might not honor people's identities fully, and Grace Dunham is a really amazing educational resource.