For my entire life I longed for love. I knew it was not right for me โ as a girl and later as a woman โ to want or expect it, but I did, and this unjustified desire has been at the root of every problem I have experienced in my life.
Lisa SeeIf it is perfectly acceptable for a widow to disfigure herself or commit suicide to save face for her husband's family, why should a mother not be moved to extreme action by the loss of a child or children? We are their caretakers. We love them. We nurse them when they are sick. . . But no woman should live longer than her children. It is against the law of nature. If she does, why wouldn't she wish to leap from a cliff, hang from a branch, or swallow lye?
Lisa See