Someone who has a disability is not necessarily in distress. You may be embarrassing and inconveniencing someone by butting in and making assumptions.

Not wanting to give everyone in your life one of your kidneys is not the same thing as hoping they die of kidney failure.

Many fathers go their entire lives without announcing how sexy their son's old girlfriends are.

Don't badger people without children into admitting the secret desire for children you're sure they have to you! Don't badger anyone! Leave the badgering to the badgers.

You need to be able to express your resentment and sense of loss in a way that doesn't damage your partner.

I'm pretty sure there's no sexuality that justifies constant low-level harassment.

If you don't like potlucks, the solution to your problem is "don't go to potlucks," not "insist other people don't have them."