You don't need to hide the fact that you're in recovery, but you don't have to share your history of addiction with acquaintances at work, either.

I'm pretty sure there's no sexuality that justifies constant low-level harassment.

I'm of the opinion that it is always a kind and appropriate decision to get in touch with someone who's lost a loved one to remind them that you're thinking of them and have fond memories of the deceased.

If and when you do decide to share your experience with your husband, it should be because you feel ready to do so, not for any other reason.

I agree that biphobia is real, but I think it's absolutely worth considering that someone who "despises" having sex with her husband - and men in general - may not be interested in men sexually.

Some struggling marriages can be salvaged with hard work and counseling; others should be dismantled and stripped for parts.

Enjoy your relationship with your boyfriend and don't worry about the people or situations you dream about. Once you wake up, they're over; let them go.