Enjoy your relationship with your boyfriend and don't worry about the people or situations you dream about. Once you wake up, they're over; let them go.

You need to be able to express your resentment and sense of loss in a way that doesn't damage your partner.

o one is right when it comes to destination weddings. It’s a big ask, requesting people take time off work and fly off to take a cruise just to see you get married, and they’re perfectly justified in saying no if they don’t have the time, the money, or simply the inclination.

An adult woman should not be so possessive of her own birthday that she begrudges her friends the chance to get married on the same day.

Don't beat yourself up over what you dream about.

It's so difficult to figure out how to offer support and also be honest with someone you love who's in a damaging relationship without making them feel defensive and retreating even further into isolation.

One of the glorious things about being a person in the world is that you don't have to worry about whether or not someone else is trying to be creepy.