You who have suffered so much do not want to be with the kind of person who makes "black widow" jokes to deal with an uncomfortable, painful moment. You should be with a person capable of great compassion and understanding.
Mallory Ortbergo one is right when it comes to destination weddings. Itโs a big ask, requesting people take time off work and fly off to take a cruise just to see you get married, and theyโre perfectly justified in saying no if they donโt have the time, the money, or simply the inclination.
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