I'm pretty sure there's no sexuality that justifies constant low-level harassment.

Unlike celibacy, which people choose, asexuality is an intrinsic part of who we are.

Depression cannot be overcome by listing a series of good things in one's life, any more than a broken foot can be healed by thinking about all the other bones you have that aren't broken.

As you feel increasingly comfortable around your friends, I think it's more than fine to share the basic details of your heroin addiction with them. If they seem receptive, you can feel free to talk about it in further detail; if they seem judgmental or uncomfortable, you can move on to other topics.

Knowledge of death is the beginning of wisdom.

There's simply no way you can tell a woman you work with that you disapprove of her relationship with her adult child, no matter how much you think it would be better for him to move out.

Reciprocating oral sex is, in general, a very good idea!