It can't hurt to have a backup.

It is so tempting to return rudeness with rudeness!

I agree that biphobia is real, but I think it's absolutely worth considering that someone who "despises" having sex with her husband - and men in general - may not be interested in men sexually.

Tenancy laws can be so complicated; I want to make sure OP is protected as much as possible.

Some struggling marriages can be salvaged with hard work and counseling; others should be dismantled and stripped for parts.

Knowledge of death is the beginning of wisdom.

There has to be some kind of personal hygiene bar that a person needs to clear in order for a relationship to be successful.