It is so tempting to return rudeness with rudeness!

I'm of the opinion that it is always a kind and appropriate decision to get in touch with someone who's lost a loved one to remind them that you're thinking of them and have fond memories of the deceased.

Most of us, however committed we are to our ideals, will find ourselves every now and again reading an attention-grabbing headline from the Daily Mail or some other lowest-common denominator. That's not the same thing as frequenting a site like the white supremacist Stormfront.

"Not being virulently and overtly racist against black people" and "treating gay people like human beings" are necessary conditions of greatness.

As long as you don't think he's just pretending not to mind for your sake, it sounds like he has truly accepted that blow jobs are too difficult and painful for you to perform, and he's still very satisfied with your sex life. Take him at his word.

I don't think it's a requirement that a happy, fulfilling relationship also provide the best sex of all time.

If just one person touches you without your permission, stepping back and saying clearly, "Please don't touch me" should get them to stop.