You are allowed to draw lines even if your feelings are irrational. Part of the marvelous business of being an adult human is that you get to set your own boundaries for whatever reasons you like, without appending a sensible rationale to them.

Unlike celibacy, which people choose, asexuality is an intrinsic part of who we are.

I do not think it is selfish to want to donate a kidney "only" to family members.

Anyone who thinks it’s funny to name their network "Tom’sHugeEtc" is going to think it’s funny that one of his neighbors is also named Tom and is embarrassed by it.

It can't hurt to have a backup.

Reconciliation is not possible when one party asks the other to obliterate all signs of their relationship.

It's OK to tell your partner to objectify you. That's part of the fun of having a partner.