Don't badger people without children into admitting the secret desire for children you're sure they have to you! Don't badger anyone! Leave the badgering to the badgers.

If and when you do decide to share your experience with your husband, it should be because you feel ready to do so, not for any other reason.

I don't think it's a requirement that a happy, fulfilling relationship also provide the best sex of all time.

If your wife briefly corrects someone with "Actually, I'm bisexual" during conversation, it hardly sounds like attempting to remain an object of desire to me. If she went around saying, "Actually, I'm still very interested in men, particularly you, you massive dose of sexual charisma," you might have a case.

Anyone who wants to pretend that your Huntington's disease is an invention is someone who does not have your best interests at heart.

If you don't like potlucks, the solution to your problem is "don't go to potlucks," not "insist other people don't have them."

I do not think it is selfish to want to donate a kidney "only" to family members.