Reciprocating oral sex is, in general, a very good idea!

You need to be able to express your resentment and sense of loss in a way that doesn't damage your partner.

I hate to get gender essentialist, but I'm starting to think that a lot of married men have some sort of heterosexually induced dentistry aversion.

Periodontal bacteria can easily slip into the bloodstream and cause infection elsewhere in the body.

To stop challenging someone from using anti-gay language simply because they persist in using anti-gay language strikes me as a defeatist approach.

If you get a dog, take care of your dog! You can just not have a dog if you don't feel like taking care of one, it's very easy to not have a dog.

It's so difficult to figure out how to offer support and also be honest with someone you love who's in a damaging relationship without making them feel defensive and retreating even further into isolation.