Reciprocating oral sex is, in general, a very good idea!

There are alternatives to pregnancy if you want another child.

A child is not a bargaining chip or a learning tool. Your focus, if you adopt a child of a different race, should be on nurturing and protecting your child from bigotry, not deploying him or her as an anti-racist Mr. Fix-It.

It can't hurt to have a backup.

You may not be able to convince everyone around you that you're doing the right thing, but you don't have to subject yourself to endless second-guessing from others, either.

"Not being virulently and overtly racist against black people" and "treating gay people like human beings" are necessary conditions of greatness.

The mere idea of asking a family member if they intentionally stopped sending me an annual bonus makes me feel like breaking out in hives.