Don't let a friend make you feel publicly uncomfortable indefinitely just because they're probably a lesbian.

I love the art history ones because it's so little work for me. There's so many paintings that when I look at them, the look on the lady's face is like so clear and her body language and her posture or their physical situation is so immediately recognizable. Anyone who's been in a conversation they didn't want to have, or been getting harangued by a little kid they didn't want to pay attention to or been tired and wanted to go to bed is just like, "Yes, of course."

Depression cannot be overcome by listing a series of good things in one's life, any more than a broken foot can be healed by thinking about all the other bones you have that aren't broken.

If and when you do decide to share your experience with your husband, it should be because you feel ready to do so, not for any other reason.

I do not think it is selfish to want to donate a kidney "only" to family members.

You're right to want to minimize your compulsive physical behavior in the workplace before it bothers your co-workers, but I hope very much you can also give yourself credit for the work you're already doing.

It can't hurt to have a backup.