Unlike celibacy, which people choose, asexuality is an intrinsic part of who we are.

You don't need to hide the fact that you're in recovery, but you don't have to share your history of addiction with acquaintances at work, either.

It is so tempting to return rudeness with rudeness!

An adult woman should not be so possessive of her own birthday that she begrudges her friends the chance to get married on the same day.

Acting politely in front of someone black and/or gay and then making horrible claims about their intelligence or worth as human beings after they leave the room is not kindness - it's hypocrisy.

It can't hurt to have a backup.

o one is right when it comes to destination weddings. It’s a big ask, requesting people take time off work and fly off to take a cruise just to see you get married, and they’re perfectly justified in saying no if they don’t have the time, the money, or simply the inclination.