Reconciliation is not possible when one party asks the other to obliterate all signs of their relationship.

If your partner asks you if something bothers you, and something bothers you, the best thing you can do is say, "Yes, it bothers me." Otherwise you create a situation where they think everything is fine, continue with the offending behavior, while you build up a secret reservoir of resentment that will eventually come pouring out, to their shock.

Tenancy laws can be so complicated; I want to make sure OP is protected as much as possible.

It is so tempting to return rudeness with rudeness!

I don't know of any way to control the subject of one's dreams although I'm fairly certain there are more than a few types of psychoanalysis dedicated to the topic.

I don't think it's a requirement that a happy, fulfilling relationship also provide the best sex of all time.

o one is right when it comes to destination weddings. It’s a big ask, requesting people take time off work and fly off to take a cruise just to see you get married, and they’re perfectly justified in saying no if they don’t have the time, the money, or simply the inclination.