I use my work as catharsis. That's often the best thing that we can do, is to allow ourselves to rage because it's so rare that we get to. We're told to forgive - I don't want to! I don't want to forgive my abuser! I don't care to and I don't like that assumption that forgiveness makes me a better person. It's not authentic to me, my feelings and what I need. But everyone has their own way.
Margaret ChoMy inclination during sex always is to use sex toys. That's not something men are often used to.
Margaret ChoThe incognito of lower class employment is an effective cloak for any dagger one might wish to hide.
Margaret ChoI am into belly dancing. I used to only hang with comics. Now I have friends who are dancers, and my whole house has a harem feel.
Margaret ChoI've spent so much time feeling ugly and being treated as ugly as a result. But I changed my attitude and said, โIโm beautiful because I love everybody as much as I can. Iโm beautiful because I have wonderful friends. And Iโm beautiful because I say I am. Iโve earned it, and Iโm gonna be it.
Margaret Cho