We need empathy to give empathy.

Focusing on the unmet need (not the judgment) is more likely to get the need met.

Often, instead of offering empathy, we have a strong urge to give advice or reassurance and to explain our own position or feeling.

It may be most difficult to empathize with those we are closest to.

We recognize that real educational reform is essential if today's and tomorrow's children are to live in a more peaceful, just, and sustainable world.

We want people to change because they see better ways of meeting their needs at less cost, not because of fear that we're going to punish them, or 'guilt' them if they don't. This applies to ourselves as well.

When you are in a jackal environment, never give them the power to submit or rebel. We want to teach this to children very early: Never lose track that you are always free to choose. Don't allow institutions to determine what you do.