What if living your life, naturally created what you wanted?
Thoughts are things...treat them accordingly.
Nothing has any power except the power that you give it.
There are only 2 reasons that someone would want something in their life and not get it. First, they don't know what to do and second, they know what to do and don't know how to get themselves to do it consistently, if at all.
See your misfortunes as blessings.
Either create your own journey or you'll become a part of someone else's.